I’ve been waiting for a while to write this post. And you should know that it is because of several reasons.
- I’m not ready to finish writing this blog. There are too many things that I still need to say and tell people. I want to take the time to start writing letters that show people that I think they matter and that they’re irreplaceable. I want them to know that there is a difference between looking and seeing and that I would love to be given the chance to see them.
- I’m selfish. I don’t want the stories to stop. I want to keep reading them and opening my ears to know them. I want to reply to them and then maybe not. I want the chance to know when to make the distinction between those options of response, even if it is all by mistake.
- The lament of the perfectionist will always be: I have a hundred things to say and only two lines to write them down on.
- I’m not ready for “this” to be over. I have spoken so much about knowing when to let something go and all of the rational parts inside of me know that it’s time to let go. I set a goal in time and I’ve already passed it, so it’s time to meet this hard deadline and start another project, maybe. But all of the parts of me that are human want to wait. They want to write more and have you read them. It’s probably not much that I’ve given you, but you have given me much in return and that alone is another thing I want to write about.
So what this all boils down to is wanting to say more.
And what this all boils down to is re-reading what I have read and knowing that I have to practice what I preach and let go of this. I appreciate it. I value it. Maybe someday there will be another blog. I will read books and write about what they mean, and if graduate school isn’t in the cards for me, I could end up on your couch, surfing my way across the state, the country, the world. I would write about that, too.
There are so many other people in this world to collect stories from.
There are so many stories to tell. Our brains are infinite.
My brain wants to grow and my heart as well. And my thoughts have. They have. And there is this ring that I get to look at on my finger everyday when I wake up and when I go to sleep and when I shower and when I type on this computer that reminds me of the reason for which I did this.
I wanted to grow and I think I have done that.
I want many things for you. I want you to listen to someone you wouldn’t have listened to normally. I want you to find your thirty seconds of insane courage to do something amazing. Even if it is just an extra thirty seconds for you to breathe–just know that it is amazing. I want you to hold someone’s hand, and no, that does not always mean romantically. Tell me, ask me, and I will hold your hand. I want you to find a purpose just for today, that you have never filled. Talk to strangers. Ask questions of people. Tell someone they’re beautiful and that you appreciate them. I think we don’t do those things enough.
You may not have a ring. But promise yourself something. Love yourself enough to work for it. Some of us start with slacking or we dive right in. I started with asking for help.
Write something. It does not have to be good. You do not have to be good. But you are always going to be something.